Chickenpox, Asiad 82, Milkha Singh and little me!

I joined my second boarding school in June 1982, at the age of 10. The term ended earlier than usual in mid-November as India – New Delhi was hosting the 1982 Asian Games from a week later. Chickenpox was in the air at school, the week before we went home for those winter holidays, the girls that slept on either side of me in my dormitory were down with it. It was inevitable that I would get it. Much discussion had ensued amongst my classmates about how dangerous Chickenpox was to an adult who had hitherto never had it, and it had been drilled into me that such adults would surely die if they contracted it.

The Sun Dial at Delhi – Jantar Mantar the Symbol of the Games and the beloved mascot Apu the Elephant

The moment I reached Delhi I kept a distance from my mother, who I knew had never had Chickenpox, I refused to hug her and told her that I must be left alone as I was contagious. Mother scoffed at my concerns.

A day later, I saw a pox appear on my left forearm, and my apprehensions seemed to be confirmed. I was alone at home, my mother was a protocol officer for the Asian Games and was working long hours.; I locked the house and walked the 250 meters to a local Doctors’ Polyclinic. I waited outside the clinic till my Doctor, Uncle Srivastava, a former student of my grandfather’s at the Armed Forces Medical College and a family friend, finished meeting his patients, as I wanted to avoid contact with them. When Uncle (it is a sign of respect in India to address elders with Uncle or Aunty), came out, I held out my arm from afar and said ‘Uncle I have Chickenpox’ he felt my forehead deduced that I had a temperature saw my heightened colour and the yet, solitary pox and said ‘that is an excellent prognosis’, that is how I learnt that word. He then wrote out a few medicines and knowing that I would not have any money on me, gave me 20 rupees and asked me to first go to the chemist, another 250 meters ahead, buy the medicines and then go home. I told him that he must find a way to contact my mother at the Asian Games Village and forbid her from coming home, he laughed and said not to worry, he said adults rarely get Chickenpox and assured me that even if she did, she would not die.

I spent the next two weeks alone in the house during the day. It was a wonderous time as the Games were telecast live throughout the day and I was thrilled with the novelty of being able to watch daytime television in India. India, in that era had state run television and the programs were normally aired just for a few hours every evening.

A friend of mother’s had returned to India from a foreign trip and gifted us a few of packs of Maggi chicken and fish stock cubes, a box of Beluga Caviar and some chocolate. For lunch, rather than eat whatever my mother had cooked, I preferred to mix a stock cube in hot water and drink it as a soup along with toast with caviar on it, what a life. The chocolate of course could not have lasted more than an hour. I am pretty sure that the pill box sized caviar container also could not have lasted very long and eating it everyday is probably just a luxury my imagination allows me.

Two weeks went by. I had pretty much recovered. One evening, during this time, another friend of my mother’s, an adult, stopped by to leave me a book to read and gave me company for half an hour or so, sitting all the while at a distance from me. A couple of days later she was detected with Chickenpox. My fear returned, I was sure that I was contagious and would be the death of others. My mother said not to worry, Aunty would be fine, though, I recollect that she did get a far more severe case of it than I.

The Asian Games then came to an end and being a Protocol Officer, my mother had passes which would let us in to the Presidential Box for the Closing Ceremony, she insisted that I not miss the opportunity. I told her that I was too scared that I would infect others. She said I had recovered, she made me speak to the Doctor who confirmed what she was saying, but I was not convinced.

I reluctantly went to attend the Closing Ceremony. I remember walking past the President’s Bodyguards, six handsome men of above six feet height resplendent in their ceremonial uniforms and was apprehensive that I had spread Chickenpox to them and maybe to the then President of India – Giani Zail Singh.

The President’s Bodyguard

I sat quietly and alone at the back of the box; my mother was on duty and went about her work. A little later, she entered the box to seat Milkha Singh ji and his son and asked me to vacate my seat to accommodate them. Milkha Singh ji asked her, who the pretty child was and she said I was her daughter. I had been cringing away from him to keep him safe, but the moment he heard I was my mother’s child he swept me into his arms and kissed my cheeks. The very cheeks that a week earlier had had the scabs of the poxes. I pushed him away and ran out, he thought I was shy, I was just scared that I had given Chickenpox to the most famous track athlete India had ever had.

Milkha Singh, the Flying Sikh 1960 Olympics, he came 4th in the 400 mtrs race

I quizzed my mother each day of the remaining holiday about Milkha Singh ji’s well being.

Milkha SIngh circa 1982

Milkha Singh ji, thankfully survived his run-in with me and the Chickenpox virus, and lived another 39 years, unfortunately succumbing to the Coronavirus on 18th June, 2021, at the age of 91, may he rest in peace.

A Little Bit of Magic

There is a little bit of magic in all our lives. But do we always notice and acknowledge it?

I, personally, look for magic and find it more often than not, and finding magic can make a mundane and ordinary day into an extra-ordinarily happy one, it makes you feel special, it makes you feel that the universe thinks about you and cares for you and that you will be fine, no matter what rages around you.

This is an account of a little bit of fragrant magic that tickled my nose a couple of days back.

Since my partner and I pretty much lived from one travel to another, the hiatus that the dastardly Coronavirus has brought to this activity means that we have had to learn to live our life differently. Yet the travel bug causes an itch ever so often, re-living memories of old trips is the only salve for the present.

Last week we were going through our photos from 2018, of a trip to Finland at this time of the year. I shared the Facebook memory from our stay at a resort in Kivijarvi in Central Finland and in response a lovely Finnish lady whom we had befriended at the same resort in 2018, commented that she was there as she wrote. I replied, asking her to remember us to the beautiful Kivijarvi and to enjoy on our behalf as well.

One of the memories synonymous with Kivijarvi, is a sensory memory, that of the sweet perfume that is emitted when you burn logs with lichen growing on them. We had been in Finland some two weeks before we reached the resort at Kivijarvi, and even though every place we had stayed at, had had a fireplace with the fire set-up, we had not lit a single one, feeling anxious that our lack of experience in how to go about it may render the wooden cabins unsafe. While in Kivijarvi we decided it was not rocket science, and not wanting to miss out on the opportunity went ahead and lit one. Soon after lighting the fire, a sweet smell pervaded our cabin, we were perplexed, we tried to solve the mystery, we checked for spills from our perfume bottles and found none. It was only when my partner went to add a log to the fire that he noticed the lichen and figured out that that was our fragrant friend.

Lichen Photo by Magda Ehlers on Pexels.com

We continued to light the fire the entire week we were in there and thoroughly enjoyed, what we termed as our aroma therapy.

Fire, Fragrance of Lichen and Game of Thrones, an awesome combination

Now let’s transport back to the present. A day after the Facebook post sharing the memories of Kivijarvi and the comment from my Finnish friend, I entered my living room late at night and was enveloped with the sweet smell of burning lichen, I was nonplussed, I attributed it to my fecund imagination and ability to re-create sensations felt in the past, I said nothing. A minute later my partner entered the room and started looking for a fire, I knew then that it was not my imagination.

That night the perfume surrounded us, we sat in silence, the memories of Finland and Kivijarvi playing in our mind, the endless blue water, the green woods, the colourful wildflowers thronging the roads, the midnight sun, playing Mölkky with our Finnish friends and on and on.

There was no explanation for the fragrance. We were in the height of summer, it was late night, there was no fire lit in our house or in the vicinity, not that the wood would even have lichen in our neck of the woods. We felt blessed, chosen, special. The only explanation – Magic. Our friend in Finland probably lit a fire, thought of us and sent scent magic our way. Thank you life, friend and Universe!

Look for your little bit of Magic….